My stories so far have all been about how amazing India and Nepal were and how much fun I had. I honestly had one of the best times of my life the three weeks while I was there, but I have also never experienced so many highs and lows. India is a beautiful country, but it's also intense: dirty, heartbreakingly poor, crowded, people stare at you and ask personal questions, people try to rip you off, and everyone wants your money.
One of the lowest points I had in India happened right after we crossed over by land from Nepal.
We took a tourist bus from Nepal that was 8 hours long, but semi bearable (minus the loud Nepali music blasting from the speaker right over my head) because it was air conditioned, we got free water, and I had my motion sickness patch on.
Once we reached the border, we had to go into the Nepali office and be stamped out of the country, and then the Indian office to be stamped into the country.

When we crossed the border around 4 in the afternoon, it instantly seemed more insane. It was much much hotter than it had been in Kathmandu, and everyone was after us trying to get us to ride their rickshaw or get on their bus. We were taking pictures of each other at the border when a little boy came up and asked if we wanted one together. We said we didn't, but he took my camera anyway. I was so sure he was going to steal it! Thankfully I got it back, but you can see in this picture that we are ready to run after him!
We needed to get a bus to Varanasi, and we found one just over the border. We got a seat up front and stowed our luggage underneath. A man who said he was the manager of the bus told us that the seats were reserved and we couldn't sit there, and kicked us to the back of the bus. This should have been our first red flag, but we obeyed. Once we were in the back, he told us a ticket was going to cost something like 375 rupees, and we handed over our money. He came back with another guy and this guy told us that we also had to pay a 250 rupee express fee. We asked him what that meant and he told us that he couldn't explain it in English, but we needed to pay it, and showed us the ticket completely in Hindi except for the number 250, and told us that that's what it said.

Zach started to fight with him, saying that we weren't going to pay for anything that we didn't understand, "WELL," he started screaming at us, "THIS IS WHAT THE TICKET SAYS, AND IF YOU DON'T WANT TO PAY THEN YOU CAN GET OFF OF MY BUS!" We were horrified that he screamed at us, and I was scared and didn't want to be stuck at the border all night, so I handed over the money. We asked him what time we would arrive in Varanasi and he told us not until 6:30am. He threw the tickets at us and told us not to lose them, and then I watched him and the other guy get off the bus! I knew that was kind of weird, actually, the entire thing was kind of weird, but we were too overwhelmed to care. We were just told that we were going to be stuck on this bus for the next 14 hours and we weren't sure what to do with ourselves. It was so hot that we were completely drenched in sweat and only had a little water left from our bus in Nepal. I don't think I can put into words how hot and sticky it was on that bus.
We started moving and those two guys that sold us the tickets were nowhere to be seen. Zach went to talk to the driver and found out that tickets to Varanasi only cost 173 rupees. We had paid 625 rupees for ours AND got kicked to the back of the bus. Zach told the bus driver our story and he shouted, "HE CHEATER! WHY YOU NOT BUY TICKET FROM ME!!" and shared the story in Hindi to the other surrounding Indian passangers, who all looked at us and shook their heads. "Many cheater in India," they told us. We had been kicked to the back of the bus so this guy could rip us off and not have the REAL bus driver see it!
So, we were stuck on this bus which drove long into the pitch black night, constantly honking the horn and waking us up every time we tried to sleep. The seats didn't recline, sometimes we drove in circles, it was so packed that people were standing in the aisles, and eveeeeryone was sick. We were the only tourists on the bus and people were just STARING at us unblinkingly. We were still completely soaking wet with sweat, and the body heat all around us wasn't helping. We were extremely paranoid about our stuff getting taken, and with all eyes on us all the time I refused to close mine, even for a second.
The one good thing that came out of this nightmare of a bus ride was that at 2:30am, the bus driver came back to told us we were in Varanasi. At first we didn't believe him. We told him that the other guy said we wouldn't be there until 6:30. "WHY YOU NOT ASK ME! HE CHEATER!" the driver told us again, and assured us that we were in fact in Varanasi. I didn't believe him until I saw a sign that said Varanasi Hotel, and then I knew I had made it. It was an 18 hour day of travel on buses, usually not even on real roads. We were exhausted, hot, sweaty, hungry, and cranky. We hated India. We didn't know what we were going to do, but we promised ourselves right then and there that that was the last time we would get ripped off in the country.